5 Questions You Should Ask Your Parents Before It's Too Late

Our parents carry stories, wisdom, and experiences that shaped who they are—and by extension, who we are. Yet, too often, we don't take the time to ask them the meaningful questions. Here are 5 essential questions to ask your parents that can bring you closer and preserve memories forever.

1. What were you like when you were my age?

This question opens a door to a world you’ve never known. You’ll hear about their dreams, struggles, and adventures—and maybe realize you’re more alike than you thought.

2. What’s the biggest lesson life has taught you?

Cut through small talk and get straight to their core wisdom. Whether it’s about love, failure, money, or resilience, their perspective is likely hard-won—and worth hearing.

3. What’s a memory you’ll never forget?

Invite a story. It could be hilarious, heartbreaking, or heartwarming. These moments often reveal sides of your parents you've never seen.

4. What did you want to be when you grew up?

This question helps you understand their unfulfilled dreams or surprising ambitions. It can also help you reflect on your own path and choices.

5. What’s something you wish you had asked your own parents?

This meta-question can be surprisingly emotional. It might lead to a deeper conversation—and give you the chance to ask something they never got to.

✨ Final Thoughts:

Don’t wait for the “right moment.” These conversations are priceless, and the best time to start them is now. A simple question can spark a bond that lasts a lifetime.

Our journal was created to capture those stories.

It’s a guided book, filled with thoughtful questions to help your loved ones reflect, remember, and share pieces of their life—big and small.

It’s a chance to preserve memories, deepen your connection, and create a legacy that will be treasured for generations.